I am not a psychologist. I don’t even play one on TV. Neither am I a physical trainer, a nutritionist, a coach, a dietitian, a counselor, nor a circus clown. I make all those qualifications to ensure that you understand that I realize I may not be the most classically learned individual on the planet and, therefore, there may be something about today’s topic that I am missing (I threw the clown thing in there to see if you were paying attention).
I will also concede that I may be guilty of the very thing that I will push against. I am both saint and sinner, with the latter winning more often than the former. Call hypocrisy if you must, point the finger at me (I am a big girl, I can take it); but then, please, let’s move along and address the issue.
You need to eat a cheese burger? I can see your ribs. Kinda gross.
No one needs his body to be like that !!!!!!!
Not feminine at all.
Your bloodlust diet (edited for language)
And, my favorite
I totally respect the hard work. I’m just saying it is not attractive….everyone is entitled to their own opinion!!
**Note: I took the liberty of correcting spelling and grammar to keep your (and my) head from popping off. You’re welcome.
Aaannnndddd, yes, I found all of these comments on public forums where they were responding to people who had put themselves out there publicly. Quite frankly, I am tired of that being used as an cop out for folks to be nasty to each other. If someone is walking down a public street and you don’t like the way they look, do you just go run up to them with your finger in their face spouting, “eewww you unfeminine beast!! You’re effing nasty!!” No, you don’t. The “public” thing is crap.
The debate on diet, exercise, and general “how to” for health and wellness has been going on for decades. I think the debates are wonderful. Listening to smart people discuss smart stuff is one of the major ways in which I learn. I have little problem with differing opinions.
In all honesty, I think the issue I have is not with the ideas, but the structure in which the ideas are conveyed and supported.
I do “A” because “B” sucks.
I don’t do “B” because I am better than you.
I don’t really understand why anyone would do “B” because I don’t want to do “B.”
“A” is sooooo superior to “B” because…look!! Unicorn!!!
At what point do we as idea havers realize that knowledge changes every day and is therefore a fluid possession? That we should probably be a little more gentle with our “oughts” as they tend to have big teeth and will bite us in the ass (regardless of said ass size).
Should we not concentrate more on supporting our own positions rather than tearing down that of another? I love to run long and lift heavy.
Does that mean I wish everyone would run long and lift heavy? Yes!
Does it mean that I find people who don’t to be less than? No!
- I am amazingly inspired by the yogis who can bend and balance in amazing feats of strength.
- I long for the grace of the swimmers that cut through the water as easily as one runs down the road.
- I am floored by the dedication it takes to prep for shows and drop those last body fat percentages.
- I am envious of those whose relationship with food is not addictive and can practice that wondrous nirvana of moderation.
In all fairness, there are things at this point in my life (see, there’s that fluid knowledge awareness) that I personally do not want. I see how some folks do it and I would not do it that way.
I could say:
I function on a plant based because eating meat is so horrible. Those poor animals…your heart health…your fat intake…your cholesterol…you must have never seen Forks over Knives. I will let you borrow my copy of The China Study.
I function (when I am on the wagon) on a plant based diet. I feel, look, perform at my best when I am living in that zone. I think a plant based diet is awesome because it is humane, healthy, and empowering.
The difference is understanding. I understand what works for me. I also know eating meat, or having a differing opinion on the food chain, does not make one inhumane. I know that there are beautiful people like Jackie who are rocking that Paleo lifestyle, getting really healthy, and raising an amazing family.
Yes, I know everyone has a right to their own opinion. You have a right to voice that opinion. I guess you do also have the right to behave like an ass.
As I proof this little post, I wonder what it is that motivates the irritation and the drive to vent it. I suppose it is the numerous people that I come into contact everyday who are trying so hard to do better. Like me, they are not perfect, but they are attempting to be better than they were yesterday. They don’t have it all right, but they are working hard on less wrong. They still have some indulgences that, quite frankly, they aren’t real interested in giving up.
The work that they, you, are putting in is tough. It is a journey. It is a walk of successes, failures, and run of the mill normal. It can be enlightening and oppressive. The thing it is typically not is easy. I get frustrated when the outside world, because of their “right” to an “opinion” makes it harder.
You are amazing. Your journey is amazing. The differences make us better. Go get your happy.