When Lani Hurts, the Chaos is Broken

Lani has been here at The Chaos for a brief time.  But before that, she was my friend.  During that time, she has become one of my best friends, my closest confidant, and you guys seem to like her being here too.

I usually write the way I talk…but I have no words…

Lani’s wonderful baby brother was killed yesterday in a car wreck.  Her words can be found here…

Mine are lost…


  1. What a huge lose for Lani and her family. My thoughts and prayers are with them all.

  2. Ugghh… what a shocking loss. My heart goes out to Lani and her family.

  3. Thank you both very much. Your thoughts are very appreciated.

  4. Cindy Meagher says:


    I am so so very sorry to hear about your loss. As you said, words cannot express what anybody and everybody feels about such an early and senseless loss. Our prayers and thoughts go out to Lani and her little ones as they carve out a new life without their “rock”.

    Life sends us down different paths but we cannot let it change us. Stay strong, believe in friends and look to your memories and your heart for strength.

    God Bless,

    Cindy Meagher

  5. I’m very sorry about your friend’s loss.

  6. Cindy,

    Thank you so very much. I really appreciate that.

  7. Creechman – Thank you.


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